Stop Him From Cheating Again or Ever

Why do men cheat? Every time you turn on the news you hear about yet one more politician or celebrity that has been caught in the act.

The bad news is that in 60 percent of marriages, men have affairs. The good news is that you can be in the 40 percent. And if you think he is or you have already caught him cheating, take heart because if you can forgive you can save your relationship.

It's all about reclaiming your inherent seductive power as a woman.

First, Why Men Cheat

  1. Blame genetics ladies, men are just wired differently. To keep the human race racing along, men are biologically programmed to deposit as much sperm in as many women as possible. Ironic isn't it that so many men can't run fast enough when a woman turns up pregnant.
  2. Sex is cheap and easy these days and the more powerful, famous or rich your man is the cheaper and easier it will come to him.  Face facts, a man's sex drive is higher than a woman's.  If he can get away with it, biologically not logically,  he'll decide it's a good idea.
  3. Some men (and women) just don't want to grow up.  The excitement of an affair makes an aging man feel like a dating teenager again. The newness is exciting and so is the danger.
  4. The grass is greener. Yep, it's your fault for gaining weight, not staying in shape or keeping yourself looking fabulous. And it doesn't matter what the man looks like himself. For him, this is all about you.
  5. Poor me syndrome. Many men claim this is the real reason why they cheat. You don't understand him, aren't there for him or nag him all the time. Life is tough on the guys.

But the number one reason most men say they cheat
is because they don't feel appreciated or they feel
that they are being taken for granted.

Yes, it's true even tough guys are still just boys at heart. So it's hard for them not to be totally infatuated by their number one fan. And, it doesn't matter if that number one fan is you are his female co-worker.

Be The Fan and Be Adorned

If you want a relationship to last, you have to be that number one fan. But how?  The guy isn't perfect or even likable all the time. You may feel he is lucky to have you at all and that he should be the one making the effort.

You may be right but it doesn't matter because again, men are motivated biologically while women are motivated logically.  That last statement may surprise you because women are always being accused of being emotional. However, when it comes to your marriage, home and family there is far more logic at work than emotion and that is your biological lot to bear.

Owning Your Seductive Power

If you've bought into the weak, emotional female role, you must take back your power. The same seductive power that women have used for centuries.  The same seductive power that some other woman may be using on your man.

It's not easy especially if you have a job, kids and a home to run but if divorce isn't in the cards for you, you'll have to take back the power and re-learn what women do best; control by seduction.

Seduction isn't about sex, lingerie or even romantic moments, its about giving your man what he really wants:  the power to be your much needed hero. And isn't that what you want too?  If you want to be adorned, re-learn the scared art of mental sorcery.  A little praise and a lot of appreciation.  It works.

Need more info?  Read all about how to be adored. It's easier than you think.

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