Do you know who Wallis Simpson was? Born Bessie Wallis Warfield, Wallis was a twice divorced American who married King Edward VIII of the United Kingdom.
This caused the King to get thrown off his throne, which was just find with him as he said he only wanted to marry the woman I love. Ahh!
He was retitled Prince Edward, Duke of Windsor and Wallis went on to live a fairy tale life as the Duchess of Windsor.
Was Wallis beautiful? rich? accomplished? exciting? sexy? No, not hardly. She was, as you can see, rather homely and as Edward described, domineering and abrasive. Was Edward just a lonely bore. No, he had power, money, blond hair, blue eyes, boyish charm and both a wife and a mistress when he met Wallis who he said he became slavishly dependent upon.
For the rest of us, getting a man to pay attention is a challenge; forget him giving up a kingdom for us. Wallis was a master of hu-man nature. She not only found her Prince Charming, she wooed him away from an empire and two other women and totally captivated him for the rest of his life.
Many of us know a Wallis and we scratch our heads and wonder how did she get him!?! All of us know beautiful women and celebrities who seems perfect in every way but who can't find a decent man or keep one from cheating.
Well it isn't beauty, a hot body, money, intelligence or even the most pleasing personality. You can forget waiting until you lose 20 pounds to find Mr. Right or getting that great job to appear successful. You don't need breast implants or even a face lift. Because the secret is: it isn't about you.
Surprised? Women spend many hours and dollars on perfecting themselves and, initially, this does attract some men but mostly for the wrong reasons. And it will do nothing to keep them.
But it's not your fault that society and advertisers have led you down the wrong path to what would have him become slavishly dependent upon you.
What Wallis, Cleopatra, Camilla Parker-Bowes and many other average looking women do right is that they understand how to feed the male ego.
You see, men are taught from a very young age and are biologically inclined to be strong, unemotional, independent and decisive. But the fact is they are totally intimated by women and the power feminine charm has over them. Talk about a conflict! It's just sad that women have forgot
ten their real power.
Demasculinizing a man is the quickest and easiest way to turn his heart to stone and his eyes roving. A man's masculinity is his identity not just with himself but with society, his family and his friends.
Deprive him of all he is biologically and conditioned to be and you lose. You lose not just him but the relationship you want, the treatment you want, the adoration you want and the fairy tale you want.
Truth is, men are easy and you are the one with all the power. But if you find that men are hard, you are doing it wrong.
Learning to reclaim your feminine power takes effort but it's easier than you think.