Find the Right Dating Site to Find Mr. Right

Want to find your soulmate, marry a millionaire, lasso a lusty Latino or date a man in uniform? Yes, Alice there is a dating service for that.

With all the online dating sites out there, you need some guidelines to follow before you commit your time, money and heart to the task of finding the man of your dreams. So get out pen and paper or open up your word processor and let's figure this out.

Good Things Happen When You Know What You Want

How else would you know if it was good or not?  So what do you want?

I want a man that loves me for who I am,  is committed to getting married and starting a family, has a good job, doesn't take drugs or fool around.

is much better than....

I want to marry a rich man that will let me shop all day long, provide me
with a nanny to care for the kids and won't care if I have a fling with the pool boy.

Hey we can dream but this last one may need a reality check.

There may be plenty of fish in the sea but not all of it is that tasty.  If you don't know what kind of man you are looking for, you probably won't be able to find him. And if the law of attraction has anything to say about it, you better be thinking clear and convincing thoughts about Mr. Right.  So in 50 words, exactly who is this guy you want?

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Ok, You've Got The Guy Figured Out, Now The Service

Jot down answers for each of these

Christian, Adventurer, Soulmate?  Do you even have a man niche? If so, your dating site search will be more focused (millionaire dating service only has 147,000 online results!).  If not, that's ok; just more to chose from.

Free love was so 1960's. You better plan to flex a little plastic to find your intended one.  You can take your chances on sites like Craigslist (watch out) or Plenty of Fish (it's a free but big open ocean).  Otherwise, think of this adventure as an investment in your future. Ask yourself how much it is worth but don't break the bank. (Plan on around $20-30 per month).

What do you want from your dating site? If you had your own dating site how would you design it? List your top 10 wants/needs as a check list to use for each potential service.

  1. Membership type and size
  2. Geographic area - do you want to move to Paris?
  3. Compatibility profiles or truth or dare approach
  4. Conservative or wild woman
  5. Marriage bound or still partying
  6. Membership restrictions or open house
  7. Service select matches or self-select contact
  8. Forums or no group socializing
  9. Age appropriate or cougar open season
  10. Security screening or trust and hope for the best

Now The Search - With Homework In Hand, Find That Service

Google your keywords. For example:  dating service Catholic 35 compatibility gets you about 120,000 results with Perfectmatch.com, Catholicmatch.com and Datinghotline.net/catholic taking the top spots.

If someone has an opinion, they have likely posted it on the internet so just type in the names of your top 3 keyword search results (1 at a time)  and see what the worldwide web has to say. Try adding the word complaint or scam to the search for more targeted results. Or go to dating forums and search or ask. Keep your 3 sites or discard as appropriate and check out the next few sites.

Every service will lets you sign up for a peek at meat.  Sign up for your top 3, spend equal time on each for a couple of days and you'll soon see which one is for you. If none of the 3, chose 3 more and repeat the process.  Be picky but realize no service is perfect and they are not the prize;  just the vehicle getting you to the prize.

Don't blow it by faking your profile or worse by using a bad photo. That photo is worth more than 10,000 profile words, so invest in the best to attract the best.

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